I was recently asked why our family would take the romance out of a courtship. Just logic and reasoning...? By no means do we ignore the area of romance. We believe in a BALANCE of romance and logic. To not have the proper balance could lead to trouble in the relationship. That is why it is good to have parents and pastors involved in the courtship. Godly guidance is a very good thing!
Logic.
Ask each other questions. Watch carefully how the other reacts to other people and situations. Keep your eyes open. Be honest with each other.
Romance.
Never commit to more than you are ready. The romance side can often make the relationship go too quickly. Hmmm...some chocolate...a note...flowers...being called pretty (or handsome)...baking something special...
How do you react to flowers, notes, etc.? Is it enjoyable? Hopefully it is not, "EWWW!" Now do not get me wrong. Not all girls enjoy flowers and chocolate...Part of the fun is finding out individual preferences...
Now our princess, Sara Rose, is making preparations for her ball. Well, maybe not a ball, but a banquet. We are taking a weekend trip...hmmm. A balanced trip. Spending more time getting to know Eugene. The college he attends is having a formal Valentine's Banquet. Yes, Sara Rose has a beautiful dress...pictures will have to wait. She wants to surprise her date. Jewelry, shoes, clutch....It has been so much fun getting everything together! They also are planning on exchanging gifts....
I am looking forward to our trip.
Getting to know Eugene more, watching our young couple interact, seeing our beautiful daughter all dressed up (Well, dad cries...).
Too much parental involvement?
I think not. One of the biggest mistakes parents make is when the children turn 18, then say, "Have a nice life. You are an adult now.."
Our "children" make some of the most important decisions of their lives at this stage.
Love them, support them, pray for them.
Thanks for stopping in today. On your next visit I will let you know more about our trip...maybe even have some pictures!
Have a wonderful day!
I am looking forward to our trip.
Getting to know Eugene more, watching our young couple interact, seeing our beautiful daughter all dressed up (Well, dad cries...).
Too much parental involvement?
I think not. One of the biggest mistakes parents make is when the children turn 18, then say, "Have a nice life. You are an adult now.."
Our "children" make some of the most important decisions of their lives at this stage.
Love them, support them, pray for them.
Thanks for stopping in today. On your next visit I will let you know more about our trip...maybe even have some pictures!
Have a wonderful day!
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